TMI Tuesday: May 10, 2011

The 7 Contrary Virtues stand in direct opposition to one of the 7 deadly sins, which were addressed in last week’s TMI Tuesday.

Sin                                                          Virtue
Lust (excessive sexual appetites)     Chastity (purity)
Gluttony (over-indulgence)              Temperance (self-restraint)
Greed (avarice)                                    Charity (generosity)
Sloth (laziness/idleness)                   Diligence (zeal/integrity/Labor)
Wrath (anger)                                      Patience (composure)
Envy (jealousy)                                    Kindness (admiration)
Pride (vanity)                                       Humility (humbleness)

1. CHASTITY – Not just moral wholesomeness but treating sexuality with due reverence and respect.
It’s too late for you horny people to be virgins, and I know you can’t practice chastity. So…if you had to cut back on one sex act, for 90 days, what would that be? BTW…How old were you when you lost your virginity?

2. TEMPERANCE – Learn how to control sexual desires rather than fulfilling them.
I know many of you are wanking double time in honor of May Masturbation Month, what’s the longest you’ve gone without masturbating? Was it self-induced or did someone command you not to masturbate? Did you find it frustrating or liberating?

3. CHARITY – A willingness to give, freely and without request for commendation.
Have you ever had sex relations with someone just because you felt badly to turn them down or you felt sorry for them?

4. DILIGENCE – A zealous attitude and careful nature toward living and sharing.
Are you a diligent lover? Do you offer more than 10 minutes in the missionary (i.e., lazy lover)? What do you do that makes  you a diligent lover?

5. PATIENCE – Seeking appropriate resolution to conflicts, and on the ability to forgive and show mercy.
Your lover never seems to be in the mood for any kind of sexual activity. How patient are you? Do you:
a. Gingerly and sweetly try to talk to them about it and coax them into being in the mood.
b. Force yourself on them by making them feeling guilty about “denying” you so you get pity sex.
c. Go off and masturbate to satisfy your urges?
d. Hang your head low and hope tomorrow will be the day he/she is in the mood for nookie.

6. KINDNESS – Manifests as the unprejudiced, compassionate and charitable concern for others.
You are an enlightened sexual being full of sex positivity, confidence, and you love sex! Your motto is to “practice random acts of sexual kindness.” I’m curious what would your most prolific act of sexual kindness be? Why?

7. HUMILITY – modest behavior, selflessness and the giving of respect.
When are you prone to modesty? In what ways do you look out for the interest of others doing things not from selfishness?

Bonus: Your lover has made you mad but he/she is clueless and is making sexual advances. You:
a. Stay miffed or irritated at your lover and refuse to have sex
b. Rebuke your lover’s advances and tell him/her “not now because I am upset with you”
c. Set the anger aside and have great make up sex
d. Have selfish sex and do only what you want and take what you need with no regard for reciprocal satisfaction


Post your answers to these questions on your own blogs on Tuesday, May 10, 2011.

Don’t forget to post a link to your TMI answers in the reply section of this post.

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10 Responses to TMI Tuesday: May 10, 2011

  1. advizor54 says:

    I will be playing along this week.

  2. Yummy says:

    I played, come visit me and see if I shall be saved or thrown out of heaven.

    Yeah yeah, we know I’m going to burn and I will probably love every second of it.

  3. Yummy says:

    I forgot to leave link… Wouldn’t want to give cause for a spanking would I?

    Come visit Heelsnstocking

    • Oh you’ll get a spanking. 😉

      As for heaven or hell…you in a warm climate is best, that way you’ll have to wear skimpy clothing 🙂 (or nothing at all)

  4. Angel says:
    I am up again this week and off to check out the other participants…

  5. Lusting Lola says:

    I’m playing along this week. Click here and judge me!

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